Have you ever been stuck in moments (or months!) of indecision? Wondering which way is the best way to go, weighing the pros and cons, trying to figure it all out?
Would you like to always know which choice will be most expansive for you and contribute the most to your life without having to figure out all of the logical details first?
When you follow the energy, your choices become beautifully and elegantly simple!
Would you be interested in some great tools to help take you out of indecision with ease?
Tool One: ask: “Does this feel light or heavy?”
Pick one of your possible choices and then ask “Does this feel light or heavy?”.
When something feels light, it is right for you. If it is true for you the energy will feel light, nurturing and spacious. If it is not true for you, it will feel twisted, heavy or dense.
Once you ask the question, then go with the choice that feels light for you.
Also remember that what is true for you, is not always true for the another person, so don’t judge the energy, just go with the lightness.
Tool Two: ask: “Will this be a contribution to my life and living?”
If you get a “Yes”, then go with it. If you get a “No”, then keep asking questions about your other choices – simple!!
Tool Three: Ask these questions and observe the energy of each time-frame:
This tool allows you to bypass your overthinking mind! If our logical mind could really make the best decision for you, you would already have the most fabulous life imaginable… Right?
So ask: If I do this class (take this job, go out with this person, etc), what will my life be like in the next 5 years?
Then expand the timeframe out to Next 10 years then Next 25 years.
Which of your choices feels more expansive, exuberant, larger and lighter to YOU? Only you know. Go with that energy!
Whatever you choose, follow your knowing. … It will always lead to you being more of you!
And you thought choosing was hard…
So would you be willing to choose more of what is true for you?
Would you be willing to make choices based on what will contribute to you, your body, your life and your living (and maybe your bank account too!!)?
What if you only make the choices that are light for you? What if heavy or light could be your guide, instead of always judging everything as right or wrong? Would that create just a little more ease for you?
So, go hangout with some people… animals… places, books or movies that make YOU feel light… and watch how it creates change in your world!
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